We know that the world is fascinated with female genitalia. Whether it is entertainment or research, people really want to know what’s happening down there and in there. How it looks, how it smells, how it works and why it works the way it does. But do you know everything there is to know about the female genitalia, as a female, we mean? Chances are that you probably don’t know more than the everyday humdrum things that you think you should know. So, here we are once again, giving you the BTS goss on all things genitalia in a female body.
SO. Let us start!
What Do You See?
The outer part of your genitalia, the one that you can see is actually known as the vulva and not the vagina. The vulva refers to the outside, visible parts of your genitalia. It includes pretty much everything that you can see from your labia to the clitoris, to the urethra and your vaginal opening. The vagina on the other hand is a muscular passageway that connects your vulva to your cervix.
Vaginas and Vulvas Vary From person To Person
As we’ve mentioned before the female genitalia is a complex and individual thing and can vary from person to person. They can come in all shapes, sizes and colours, and it is normal. Just like your facial features, your genitalia are exclusive to you. There is no one size fits all here ladies and boy are we glad.
Your Clitoris Is More Iceberg than Button
While we often use the word button when we mention the clitoris, it’s actually quite literally the tip of the iceberg. The part that you can see is just one part, the total organ actually extend within your body and includes thousands of tiny little nerves that extend down underneath the skin and along either side of the vulva and can be stimulated by the tip known as the clitoris.
Your Vagina Can Expand To Twice Its Normal Size
When women become aroused, there’s more muscular tension in the body, which leads to vaginal tenting. What is vaginal tenting you ask? Well, the muscular tension mentioned above is what draws your uterus upwards during arousal. This in turn creates more space in the vagina (vaginal tract) lengthwise, hence expanding it in size. Interesting right?
Not All Women Are Born With a Hymen
As we’ve mentioned before the hymen is subjective to the individual to whom it belongs so the thickness and coverage can vary. But there are some women who are naturally born without a hymen, similar to those who’re born with an imperforate one. But since there’s no way to run a hymen check per se you never really know whether you’ve broken it, have had it rubbed away with time or were simply born without one.
Unfortunately Vaginas DO Tear During Childbirth but No Need to Panic
Hold the door guys; there is no need to panic. It is perfectly normal for vaginal deliveries to include tearing or require an incision. It’s okay. This is a normal part of childbirth and the female body is designed to bounce back from it right as rain. The vagina is an extremely resilient organ and due to a very strong blood supply that is more than ample, it can heal much quicker than other parts of your body.
FAQ’s
Do all vulvas look the same?
No—vulvas vary widely in shape, size, colour and structure. As the article states, these variations are perfectly normal and shouldn’t be a source of shame. Each individual’s anatomy is unique, so comparing to an “ideal” image can be misleading.
Why is the clitoris described as more than just a “button”?
While often referred to simply as a “button,” the clitoris actually extends deep into the body with thousands of nerve endings beneath the surface. The visible part is just the tip; knowing this fuller anatomy can improve understanding of function and pleasure.
Can the vagina expand in size?
Yes. According to the article, during arousal the vagina can undergo “tenting” where the uterus moves upward and the vaginal canal lengthens and expands. This is a natural physiological response and not a sign of “looseness.”
Are all hymens the same or present?
No. The article notes that some women are born without a typical hymen, or its coverage and thickness vary widely. Therefore presence or absence of a hymen is not a reliable marker of anything definitive.
Does childbirth always cause vaginal tearing?
While tearing or an episiotomy can happen during vaginal delivery, the article reassures that the vagina is highly resilient with strong blood supply and typically heals well. So while common, tearing isn’t something to fear permanently.
Why is knowing your own genital anatomy important?
Understanding the parts of your genitalia—outside and inside—empowers you to care for them properly, recognise changes, and avoid myths or unnecessary embarrassment. The article emphasises this awareness helps better hygiene and self-confidence.
Do variations in size or shape of the labia matter?
No—they don’t inherently matter in a health sense. The article points out that labia majora and minora vary considerably between individuals and there is no “one size fits all” normal. Accepting your own normal helps reduce insecurity.
Why is it said your vagina is “self-cleaning”?
Because the article explains the vagina maintains its natural ecosystem of fluids and good bacteria; using harsh washes or internal cleansing can disrupt the balance and lead to irritation or infection. Gentle external cleaning is usually enough.
What red-flags indicate you should see a doctor about genital changes?
The article mentions that if you notice sudden changes—like unusual discharge, different smell, irritation, or discomfort—it’s time to consult a professional rather than normalise symptoms. Being aware and proactive supports better vaginal health.